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Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? (Vogue)

If someone so much as says “my boyf–” on s...
thankman
  11/26/25
Written by a jew or not. Make ur guess here.
bungulator
  11/26/25
isnt she being honest like the guy who made annie hall
VoteRepublican
  11/26/25
afro-brit. https://www.instagram.com/reels/DQjczM8jCyb/
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  11/26/25
So jew imo Any product that wouldn't exist without intern...
bungulator
  11/26/25
she has a boyfriend now
Lesbian with a Black, disabled, non-binary child
  11/26/25
this came out like a month ago and it was completely retarde...
fulano
  11/26/25
rape
Hallmark Channel white chad driving pickup truck
  11/26/25


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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:23 PM
Author: thankman

If someone so much as says “my boyf–” on social media, they’re muted. There’s nothing I hate more than following someone for fun, only for their content to become “my boyfriend”-ified suddenly. This is probably because, for so long, it felt like we were living in what one of my favorite Substackers calls Boyfriend Land: a world where women’s online identities centered around the lives of their partners, a situation rarely seen reversed. Women were rewarded for their ability to find and keep a man, with elevated social status and praise. It became even more suffocating when this could be leveraged on social media for engagement and, if you were serious enough, financial gain.

However, more recently, there’s been a pronounced shift in the way people showcase their relationships online: far from fully hard-launching romantic partners, straight women are opting for subtler signs—a hand on a steering wheel, clinking glasses at dinner, or the back of someone’s head. On the more confusing end, you have faces blurred out of wedding pictures, or entire professionally edited videos with the fiancé conveniently cropped out of all shots. Women are obscuring their partner’s face when they post, as if they want to erase the fact they exist without actually not posting them.

So, what gives? Are people embarrassed by their boyfriends now? Or is something more complicated going on? To me, it feels like the result of women wanting to straddle two worlds: one where they can receive the social benefits of having a partner, but also not appear so boyfriend-obsessed that they come across as quite culturally loser-ish. “They want the prize and celebration of partnership, but understand the norminess of it,” says Zoé Samudzi, writer and activist. In other words, in an era of widespread heterofatalism, women don’t want to be seen as being all about their man, but they also want the clout that comes with being partnered.

https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now



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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:26 PM
Author: bungulator

Written by a jew or not. Make ur guess here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5802876&forum_id=2#49462858)



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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:29 PM
Author: VoteRepublican (A true Chad!! where's your gf/wifew?)

isnt she being honest like the guy who made annie hall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5802876&forum_id=2#49462861)



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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:32 PM
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afro-brit.

https://www.instagram.com/reels/DQjczM8jCyb/

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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:37 PM
Author: bungulator

So jew imo

Any product that wouldn't exist without international jewery is jew

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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:33 PM
Author: Lesbian with a Black, disabled, non-binary child (who worked at an abortion clinic)

she has a boyfriend now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5802876&forum_id=2#49462877)



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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:33 PM
Author: fulano

this came out like a month ago and it was completely retarded then. one of the things i noticed is that NO ONE EVER mentioned that maybe posting your bfs face 24 hours a day is annoying and disrespectful. like no woman respoding to this ever even considered the privacy of another human.

strange bunch, hope it is worth it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5802876&forum_id=2#49462881)



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Date: November 26th, 2025 1:37 PM
Author: Hallmark Channel white chad driving pickup truck

rape

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5802876&forum_id=2#49462895)