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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:32 PM Author: Rage Problems Told me today after I found his stuff at our place. Says she wants him in my kids life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023647) |
Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023656) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: gaetan dugas LUCKY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023659) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023912) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:20 PM Author: 6000 ants dressed like rice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024184) |
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Date: July 26th, 2026 3:53 PM Author: which is what makes time travel possible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50025424) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: The Penis tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023660) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:11 PM Author: Roblox (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023972) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:37 PM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) is this flame, or are you guys separated or what (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023664) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: Rage Problems We separated. We agreed not to introduce romantic partners to our kid. She has been doing it behind my back apparently. And she won’t stop. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023681) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023683) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:49 PM Author: ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but when she promised she didn't have another man. so, it's completely different now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023699) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:02 PM Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024166) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:49 PM Author: ...,....,,........ "She won't stop"
Heh, and neither will he, lil' breh |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 10:08 AM Author: dupa 1. How old are your kids? 2. How long have you been separated? 3. How long has she been dating this guy? |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:39 PM Author: mentally ill shut-in Race? But you doomed the fictional child in this fictional situation to its lifetime of playroom hotdogs when you started cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023672) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: Rage Problems We are white (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023682) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:50 PM Author: mentally ill shut-in You and the other man are "we" already? Eskimo bros (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023703) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: Garfieldguy2000 Yeah if her other man is birdshit he’s only putting up with a fat bitch who just gave birth in order to get access to the child. Honestly a black guy would be safer from the playroom hotdog perspective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023707) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:54 PM Author: Rage Problems It’s insane to me why this dude would target her. He’s a normal good looking bro. My kid is 9 months old. There’s a crib in the room I found his shoes and business shirt. If I did something like that, it would be one night stand, but it sounds like they’re in some relationship and he has aspirations of moving into my place. I have a very very nice place. Maybe he thinks she’s rich. Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023713) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:18 AM Author: ;::;:;;::;;;;;:::: this is probably it. he is going to be "regular dad" and you'll be "weekend dad". living off of your dime, in the house you paid for at least the kids is young enough that they'll never really view you as their father |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:29 AM Author: Nazca Redlines This is the kind of morning toxicity I came here for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029062) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:31 PM Author: Orange Order (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029865) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:53 AM Author: artificial intelligence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029569) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: mentally ill shut-in 100% this. But at least he's not Hispanic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023715) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:18 AM Author: Butt Penis (✅🍑) “the playroom hotdog perspective” would be a great name for a 1970s experimental funk jazz fusion band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028935) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:03 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028977) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: Shema Yisrael in all seriousness dont let him near ur kid. that's like 95% of molestation cases (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023705) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: Rage Problems How can I stop it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023708) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: Garfieldguy2000 The best way is to not cheatmo and blow up your family. This kid’s boihole is gonna be busted (to the extent any of this is real which we all know it’s sloppy flame based on that last vacation thread) but luckily you can start over with the new chick and have a kid and try not fall in love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023826) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:49 PM Author: ...,....,,........ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028799) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:19 AM Author: ;::;:;;::;;;;;:::: cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028944) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Chad file for divorce and get a custody order that prohibits other partners from being introduced to the kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023953) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:06 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) Not a family lawmo but seems like it’s too late for this, given that the kid met him and he’s evidently moving in. Would a court really order that a person who’s already met the kid can’t be around the kid or move into the house? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028980) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 3:58 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. Do they call him daddy? Do they look oddly like him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023814) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:09 PM Author: there is very little chance you are white You just have to give up on the whole "family" and move on when this happens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023829) |
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Date: July 26th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: treacherous gays inc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50025447) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:55 AM Author: Ricky lol yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028937) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023911) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 4:49 PM Author: have you eve looked at a quarter not really ur wife is she bud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023915) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:46 PM Author: you're the puppet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029905) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:12 PM Author: OYT and the Indie Reprieve ( ) Alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023973) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:09 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024078) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 5:13 PM Author: Israeli pedophile den good for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50023974) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:08 PM Author: The Penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024076) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:15 PM Author: you're the puppet Isn't it time for divorce? or are you guys hey maybe we'll get back together? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024095) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 6:16 PM Author: The Penis I don't think its time yet. She is just going through a phase where she desires much more potent men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024096) |
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Date: July 25th, 2026 7:24 PM Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth) not sure why that would be a phase. but otoh if you're not divorced i definitely don't understand why she wants to introduce the dude to your kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50024197) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 10:09 PM Author: Rage Problems Update - she now wants him to move in. She has been dating this guy for a few weeks. I will now be financing my wife and her husband apparently. She also has contacted a lawyer and wants half my take home pay. Seems like she’s going to serve me with papers soon. This should be fun a few years.
The only silver lining is things are going well with my subordinate. We remain in love. |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:31 PM Author: Emperor CRISPR Chad von Neumann III ( ) She’s hurting you intentionally because you started all of this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028762) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:39 PM Author: Garfieldguy2000 Women aren't like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028775) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:43 PM Author: Emperor CRISPR Chad von Neumann III ( ) The real Garfield’s level of cynicism is about ten times too low for this conversation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028781) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:54 PM Author: ...,....,,........ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028812) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: Bellevue therapy dog tp (retired on 11/11/26) Okay, I lol'd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029537) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:56 AM Author: Madison Avenue Lemming Enslaved to Conformity Trust me, I know these things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029017) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:41 PM Author: you're the puppet Oh you're that guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028779) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:24 AM Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028859) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 6:19 AM Author: ;::;:;;::;;;;;:::: (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028945) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 11:54 PM Author: Shema Yisrael ur kids gonna have some dark fukin moments man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028814) |
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Date: July 27th, 2026 10:11 PM Author: Candy Ride Is this Whok? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028546) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:25 AM Author: ret*rded ape d*ck amounts of money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028936) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:03 AM Author: Lawyers are the lowest form of life. OP is Muscadine Wine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028978) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:24 AM Author: Wildberries Mercer (Safari) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029002) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:06 AM Author: Candy Ride Forgot about him. He was 180. Great poaster. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029435) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 5:58 AM Author: my dog can log into xo more often than I can (thanks, Rach!) Guys, _this_ is how you slow play flame. Take notes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028939) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:04 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) If something like this had happened with me, I’d have lost it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028979) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:17 AM Author: law is ea$y (🧐) OP is sociopath storytime style flame not raging on Adderall style flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50028995) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 7:29 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) i don't think he's flame. if he is, he's very good flame. i did something very similar to him back in 2020, and goddamn it if he doesn't sound exactly like me back then.
is op really muscadine wine? i forget what he was poasting as when he started making threads about his subordinate. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:17 AM Author: Rage Problems It’s not flame. This is my real life sadly. I am not muscadine wine. I can’t say much about her taking up with another dude obviously since I’m already with my subordinate. But having him around my kid already behind my back and wanting him to move in is crazy. I have a key and could have walked in on them. Like a month ago my wife was literally asking if I’d be willing to give her my semen so that she could have another kid from me even if we aren’t staying together. So this just started and this guy already wants to move into my place. He’s apparently even willing to somehow financially compensate me to do so. So she’s rushed into this. I can’t imagine this is going to end well. But I may have some opportunity to get this whole thing over and settled for a reasonable amount financially due to her somehow being in love. But I can’t get over the kid angle. He’ll be with them more than I am and in my place. That is a tough pill to swallow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029044) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:26 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) JFC what a mess. all i can say is thank god my wife never did anything like this or i'd have possibly killed her and myself.
your wife seems to be acting erratically, which i guess is obvious and didn't need to be said. this whole situation is pretty fucked up.
are you and your subordinate shacked up or do you have plans to be? i assume you're still closeted at work, so maybe you can't.
you got this advice before from me and others, but be very wary of your subordinate. something is "off" about a woman who would be willing to break up a young family. my wife said that to me right after she caught me and i told her i was leaving, and she was right. the woman i left for is extremely selfish and self-centered - used to being told how beautiful she is and having guys pay for this and do that for her, etc. and it shows. turns out she had a disabled kid when she was 22 and she wrote him off. she also left her 13 year old kid in florida to move in with me. anyway, just look for red flags, brother. she went right back to florida, in her 40s with no job and not having worked since she was like 28, living off alimony, bouncing her loose pussy from man to man, according to what friends tell me.
anyway, i'm pulling for you. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:38 AM Author: Rage Problems We don’t live in the same city so we can’t be shacked up. I need to be here so that I can be close to my kid. But we live close enough that it’s a quick flight. She came out for 10 days recently. I just went and hung out with the kid without her around and then came back later. And I go to her and we go on vacation etc. But yes the relationship is closeted other than with our closest friends. She actually has a really good head on her shoulders, has been a calming influence in my life. Plus she’s hot. And thanks man, I appreciate that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029523) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) i assume she's going to eventually move? you should probably wait to introduce her to your kid (i assume you already were). maybe 6-8 months would be good, if not a full year, and then work your way up to her moving in or whatever.
i did not do that, i moved out in october 2020 and the other lady moved in on like november 6 and i got into it with my wife over introducing the kids to her, etc. i was such a shithead at the time. i tell you this so you are aware of what can happen (may not be all that applicable to you since almost all of it was driven by my alcoholism) - i neglected my kids badly for about 8 months (october to june) while i was bad off with booze: i left my kids in the apt one night to run across the street to get beer/wine and my older son, 5, had woken up and was in the living room bawling when i got back. my gf/fiancee went out for a few hours and came home and the older kid was on the couch looking dejected and she said "hey, what's wrong?" and he said "well i kept asking my dad if he'd take me to CVS to get a toy and he kept telling me we will go soon, but he kept drinking more and more and now he's in the bed sleeping" and she took him out and bought him a superman or marvel action figure. we took the kids to hershey park (when i had an ankle monitor LOL) and we stayed there for like 45 mins, i rode two roller coasters with the older kid and maybe one by myself and then we left. when i think about that stuff, i feel very bad about myself. don't ever get to that point. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Rage Problems For work reasons, it will likely be hard for her to be here full time. At some point we will have to figure it out, but we may have to always kinda split time between the two cities for the foreseeable future. Yeah, I don’t really have any desire to introduce her to the kid anytime soon. That’s my wife’s decision is so perplexing. I’ve been in love and with the subordinate for several months and it hasn’t crossed my mind. Meanwhile my wife not only introduces him to the kid but even wants him to move in after weeks? I can’t wrap my mind around that. Just date the dude when I’m watching the kid or babysitter etc. until it’s been like a year.
I drink a lot but haven’t around the kid. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) yea you know what, a woman doing what she's doing is a huge red flag. it's somewhat par for the course for men to do retarded bullshit (like i did or like your wife is doing), but it's another for a woman to do it. double standard and unfair i guess, but true.
this is pretty concerning all around. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:05 PM Author: Richard Ames Isn't the subordinate married? Has she not left her husband yet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029603) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:29 AM Author: zarathustra what's his name (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029060) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 9:50 AM Author: Nazca Redlines (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029235) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:43 AM Author: mentally ill shut-in Why does he need a place to live? Is he homeless? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029072) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:50 AM Author: .,.,.,.,.,...,.,,.,,.....,.,..,.,,...,.,.,,...,. easy access to milf pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029081) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:53 AM Author: mentally ill shut-in And playroom hotdogs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029091) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:40 AM Author: Rage Problems That’s what I asked her. My place really is amazing. He probably lives in a much worse place and they think they’re in love and destined for this and this is his opportunity to move in and make it all happen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029531) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 8:49 AM Author: .,.,.,.,.,...,.,,.,,.....,.,..,.,,...,.,.,,...,. this is 180 and you deserve this. Hopefully he knocks your wife up and some lesbian judge makes you pay child support |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 2:25 PM Author: Trust If Aryan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50030013) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 9:53 AM Author: Nazca Redlines Going from still trying to work it out to separated to dating someone new and ready to move in together in the span of a few weeks is wild. Why is your ex so enthusiastic about starting another long term relationship already? And how does she have time for that while watching your kid? Where is he while your wife is going on these dates?
How long did you and her take to go from dating to in a relaitonship to moving in together to married? |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 10:04 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) She’s very emotional rn so part of this is her flailing trying to find love and part of it is her trying to hurt op. That’s how I read it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029277) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: Rage Problems She spends all of her time socializing and just brings the kid everywhere. My wife is good looking but it’s still insane to me that some dude is like I’m gonna start a romance next to a small child.
I dated her for five years before we got married, but we moved in relatively quickly. But we didn’t have kids and she kept a separate place for the first like year just in case, just a different situation. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 11:47 AM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) this guy 100% has something wrong with him. no idea what it is, but there is something.
she is also clearly not herself. you traumatized her badly (not trying to make you feel bad), and part of this i think is she's not in her right mind and she also wants to hurt you or get back at you. that has to be going on as well. this situation is not going down very well, unfortunately. |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: Nazca Redlines (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029919) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:56 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Does she work?
Is she smart enough to see that a guy very likely isn't a great long term prospect when he's (a) the first guy she happened to start something with, just weeks after her marriage dissolved (presumably...), and (b) strangely eager to date and move in with a newly single mom? |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 12:01 PM Author: Richard Ames I think this is where I'm finally able to say this whole saga has been flame. But well done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029591) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 2:49 PM Author: little ball of Hebraic rage ((zurich is stained)) i'm telling you, as someone who lived a scenario very similar to this, this isn't flame. it rings too true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50030119) |
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Date: July 28th, 2026 1:32 PM Author: Orange Order Have you considered triple homicide suicide? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5886091&forum_id=2#50029871) |