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Comical Psychic Tanning Salon
  11/15/25
Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their w...
Comical Psychic Tanning Salon
  11/15/25
I'm somewhat into the cuckold thing, it's not my main thing ...
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which dad?
  12/19/25
I want to know why straight men cram sausages into their thr...
lavender international law enforcement agency organic girlfriend
  11/15/25
It's ultimately a defensive mechanism from the cuck. And pro...
Comical Psychic Tanning Salon
  11/15/25
The most scholarly thread in xo history
Vigorous Aggressive Blood Rage
  11/15/25
Cuckism is THE intellectual fetish, Trumpkin.
salmon soggy hall
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Watcher in the Woods
  12/19/25
they are small and they want to see a man accomplish what th...
ocher drunken reading party
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Comical Psychic Tanning Salon
  11/16/25
From a Lacanian perspective-- "desire" is not orie...
metaepistemology is trans
  12/19/25


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Date: November 15th, 2025 2:58 PM
Author: Comical Psychic Tanning Salon



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Date: November 15th, 2025 2:58 PM
Author: Comical Psychic Tanning Salon

Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their women. The man that they don't consider themselves to be, but the other man does embody. There is a homoerotic element to this sort of fantasy, it is indeed somewhat motivated by a damaged sense of masculinity or sense of self.

The cucks anima is tingled by the presence of the ideal masculine, here comes jealousy and feelings of inferiority into play and since they don't consider themselves to be this ideal man but still do identify as straight men and don't wish to be submissive in bed, they do want to see their ideal man make love to their object of desire. Hope this makes sense.

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Date: November 15th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Comical Psychic Tanning Salon

I'm somewhat into the cuckold thing, it's not my main thing but part of a collection of fetishes I half-jokingly call my sexual annihilation complex. All my fixations and fetishes involve annihilation of my male identity, like ego death, suicide by cop in a femdom context, it's self harm in a porn consumption context and inviting my destruction in relationships. It also feels really, really good, it's an intoxicating disorientation, the loss of control and then loss of male value, the shock and loss of the rejection. My destruction is a big part of the appeal, but the fact that she did it to me is a powerful intoxication; such a visceral

betrayal!

For me at least, it's not really about being low value, however that's described, but rather about experiencing the shock and transformation of loss of male value and male identity, the act of being turned into low value by her judgement and by her carnal want for a bigger dick or a guy with more muscles etc. It's a translation of the death experience, and specifically the act of being killed.

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Date: December 19th, 2025 9:30 AM
Author: which dad?



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Date: November 15th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: lavender international law enforcement agency organic girlfriend

I want to know why straight men cram sausages into their throats like Elton John at a fire island buffet

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Date: November 15th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Comical Psychic Tanning Salon

It's ultimately a defensive mechanism from the cuck. And probably from the wife also. If he and his wife were satisfied with their monogamous sexual relationship, then they wouldn't have searched for more. Instead, this is their ultimate securing mechanism of their relationship. This way he will make sure that the wife is satisifed, and he will calm down his insecurities by delegating a part of his responsibility. At least for the moment.

The more powerful someone wants to appear in the real life, the more insecurities he has deep down. And an apparent powerful man like can't afford losing his wife. As a consequence, he preferes to share her voluntarily to prevent his failure.

This way, he will obtain a fully satisfying sexual experience by being free of his insecurities. Or at least that's what he imagines it will happen

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Date: November 15th, 2025 6:20 PM
Author: Vigorous Aggressive Blood Rage

The most scholarly thread in xo history

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Date: November 15th, 2025 6:21 PM
Author: salmon soggy hall

Cuckism is THE intellectual fetish, Trumpkin.

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Date: December 19th, 2025 12:12 AM
Author: Watcher in the Woods



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Date: November 15th, 2025 6:23 PM
Author: ocher drunken reading party

they are small and they want to see a man accomplish what they can't

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Date: November 16th, 2025 7:09 PM
Author: Comical Psychic Tanning Salon



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Date: December 19th, 2025 9:41 AM
Author: metaepistemology is trans

From a Lacanian perspective-- "desire" is not oriented toward objects as such, but toward what is missing--or what he called "Lack". Desire arises because the subject is constituted by entry into the symbolic order, which permanently separates the subject from complete satisfaction. So the subject does not desire the partner *directly*, but desires *being desired* by the Other. The CUCKOLD externalizes this structure by staging desire as explicitly belonging *elsewhere*.

In cuck fantasies, the third party functions as an embodiement as the Big Other's desire. He is imagined as possessing what the subject LACKS (virility, authority). He acts as a guarantor that desire exists independently of the subject's own agency. Here the subject does not merely *observe* infidelity; the fantasy requires that the partner's desire be certified by an external authority. This avoids the anxiety of self grounded desire which is fundamentally unstable.

In terms of CASTRATION ANXIETY, Lacan would symbolically name the subject's recognition that they cannot be the exclusive object of the Other's desire. In cuck fetishism, castration is accepted, ritualized and aestheticized. Rather than anxiously denying LACK, the subject organizes their enjoyment around it. This converts a structural loss into a controlled scene, reducing anxiety by giving lack a determinate form.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5798497&forum_id=2#49522062)